March 2012
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The Various Degrees Of Being “Over” Your Ex →
When you still sleep with them. This is the phase at which nothing has really changed except you both finally came to the conscious realization that it’s dead in the water, and because of this development you think you’re ‘totally fine’ still hooking up with the person. In other words, you’ve lost the title, commitment, and/or stability of a relationship but one or both of you still want the...
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Growing Up Gay in the 1990s: Has That Much Changed... →
Sometimes when people ask me why I write, I tell them that it’s because I grew up gay (very gay) way out in the middle of cowboy country in the windswept and dusty badlands of eastern Montana. I don’t know that this answer is very satisfying to anyone. Sometimes people chuckle, uncertain. Sometimes they cock their heads, ask me to elaborate. Sometimes they just nod knowingly (you know...
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February 2012
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WatchGay Couple in Marine Homecoming Photo Speaks Out
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Bob Green, Anti-Gay Bigot, Dies As Resentful As He... →
Bob Green is dead.
Most people have no idea who he was. You can’t blame them. He was just a speed bump on the road toward equality of rights. Behind the scenes, however, he played an important role in creating the “culture war” that still plagues this nation
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The Top 10 Grindr-Induced Psychological Maladies →
In only a few years, the Grindr app has proliferated around the globe like wildfire, helping millions of gay men locate each other with razor-sharp accuracy (give or take 213 feet). As a practicing psychologist and avid student of human behavior, the Grindr phenomenon prompted me to ponder deeper issues and implications.
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Why You Can’t Make Your Ex Fall In Love With You... →
It’s liberating when you realize that someone doesn’t love you anymore. Well, at first it’s devastating. At first you’ll be stricken with grief and question what’s wrong with you. You’ll ask yourself what you can do to make yourself more lovable, as if changing one thing will suddenly make you more appealing to a mass group of people. There must be something you can fix inside yourself that will...
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The Walls Are Tumbling Down →
Although we still have a long way to go, it would be hard not to draw the conclusion that February 2012 is the month that the walls came tumbling down and the march toward marriage equality in this country became unstoppable.
In less than three weeks, here’s what has happened
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“I don’t believe in an America where the separation of church and state are absolute. The idea that the church can have no influence or no involvement in the operation of the state is absolutely antithetical to the objectives and vision of our country. To say that people of faith have no role in the public square? You bet that makes me want to throw up.”- Rick Santorum
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